I agree Emma, that if a man and woman are cheating on each other,they can,t be in love with each other. But sometimes we have to look at the reasons behind the infidelity. Yes it is devastating for the person being cheated on, but we must not be too judgemental of the person doing the cheating as there may be valid reasons. There are always two sides to a story, and no-one knows what goes on behind closed doors in any relationship.